再好的朋友都会起冲突,再好的朋友都会互相猜疑.当朋友之间有误解时是否应该好好的把误解解决,不让误解威胁到朋友之间的友谊?
当朋友之间的朋友插入当和事老,希望朋友之间的误解可以解决但是又把误解更深一层的加重, 是和事老的错?
当双方不肯让步,和事老是否继续想办法或者置之不理,隔岸观火?做为和事老的你会如何选择?
当做为和事老的你,和朋友有冲突事,是否会把友谊放第一,做出让步,寻找和解的方法而不让你的怒气掩盖了朋友之间的友谊?
或者你会让时间冲淡误解?但是心里的那根刺是否会让你留下影印?让你对你的朋友有所保留?
是你会如何的选择?
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If your friendship is strong enough, it can withstand any form of tides and turns.
I find that if you let your ego stand in the way, and refuse to take a step back and let the views of others be taken into account, the friendship may not be as strong as you thought it was.
Friends are not happy all the time. We ride with them through their ups and we sit with them through their downs.
Sometimes, all it takes is a retreat from a defensive stance, and simply ask the person "are you ok? I notice you've been kind of cranky lately. Any reason?"
And finally, one really learns most by listening. Not talking.
Agree. And OMG!!! You came to comment on my blog!!! Haha.
I guess the best way to resolve is to take a step back. Remember the times where frenship are the best and try to revert back the times~
I believe the times where we are carefree and out of decision making is the best.
The question to ask yourself is: Which is more important? The friendship or your ego? Once, you know the answer, you will know what to do.
嗨！Long time no hear, how's things? 希望你所写的并不是你所遭遇到的真实状况。但如果是的话，希望一切能早日平息。
我是一个很鸡婆的人，所以常当和事佬。做为和事佬，千万不能冲动，否则只会火上加油。你必须能冷静地处理一切，让争执的双方能平心静气，看清自己及对方的立场。很多误会都是因一时之气而越弄越糟，所以有时让所有相关人冷静一下再讨论与处理纠纷，或许也不错。
我前阵子也和我的好朋友起了争执，但最后还是和好了，因为我们都勇于说出平时不敢说的话，让对方知道自己真实的想法。
真挚的友谊不是没有猜疑和误解的，而是在一切发生后，彼此仍希望对方在身边，仍相信对方是为自己好。All the best!
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