Me

I'm not a speaker, I'm a listener. I don't like to say 客套话. Because everyone can do so. I prefer to listen to people say about their problems. My advice to everything is my opinion, is always the truth, it would be nasty but is for you own good. As a good friend or as a family member, I don't see the point of say 客套话 which you will be listening from everyone and end up you are still stuck on the same spot. I rather give you some personal time and space for you to sort out your feeling and plan ahead of what you want to do. It might look that I'm heartless, but action is always better then words. 客套话 doesn't help when problems arises and people run away from it, I prefer action and to stand by the decision, stand by your side even one everyone is keep away from you. This is me.